Arranged marriages: Re: [geeks] Stupid people rant

[Nina Bersamina]

Uhm must be something in the air.

I have been seriously freaking about about my marriage
date in January.  I am not totally in lust with my
boyfriend, do you really need to be to marry?  Isn't
loving the person and admiring their qualities good
enough?  Do you really have to have the urge to jump
his bones all the time?

Am I freaking out? 

Am I getting married?

hmmmmmmmmmmmmm

-N
--- Amy <scoobydoo at ohno.mrbill.net> wrote:
> On Wed, 13 Feb 2002, Alice Conrad wrote:
> 
> > I can never understand why ppl like that let
> themselves get so bothered
> > by something so trivial, it must a a sad life with
> the thing that most
> > impacts it is something along the lines of the
> state od toothpaste.
> 
> bear in mind in retrospect i find the whole thing a
> learning/amusing
> experience, probably because if i dwelled on it it
> would have torn me
> apart. after my divorce my 'standards' became more
> detailed--probably
> because i had unwisely chosen to marry someone who
> was very picky and
> unwilling to compromise. :)
> 
> >
> > For me it was find some one who isn't out to
> change me or critise the
> > way I am am I every turn. (once burnt twice shy ).
> 
> completely understandable :)
> 
> --a
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